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Please send your RSVP by 11:59 pm UK time on 30 November 2026. After the deadline, please contact us directly if you need to respond or change an answer.

Tlhabiso ya Bogadi is a pre-wedding celebration following the conclusion of the lobola negotiations. It involves the exchange of gifts including clothing and blankets which are symbolic items for both families. The celebration brings both families together through song, dance and shared traditions, honouring the unions and expressing gratitude as the two families formally welcome one another.

Please arrive by 11:00 am on Friday, 2 April 2027 for the traditional celebration. For the White Wedding on Sunday, 4 April 2027, guests should arrive at 1:00 pm and the ceremony starts at 1:30 pm. Please allow sufficient time for parking, entering the venue and finding your seat.

If you opened your personal invitation link, press RSVP to go straight to your invitation. Otherwise, enter your full name to find it. You can return later to make changes.

For our Lobola Celebration, celebrate your culture by wearing your own traditional attire. For our White Wedding, gentlemen should wear tuxedos/evening suits, and ladies should wear formal evening attire in shades of dark green or wine. See the Dress Code section for the colour palette.

Please refer to your personal invitation for the specific details about extra guests and children.

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